BOOK KIM
KIM LENAR-EHRHARDT

I help women stop
shrinking — on stage,
in business, and in life.

Former media executive. Founder of The Hyve Hamptons. Keynote speaker. Visibility mentor. I've built communities, crossed continents, and learned the hard way that being "the strong girl" isn't a superpower. It's a trap.

 

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"Your mess is your message."

KIM LENAR-EHRHARDT

SIGNATURE KEYNOTE

"I Was the
Strong Girl"

A keynote for women who hold everything together for everyone else — and have never once asked for help. This talk moves audiences from armor to authenticity, and from isolation to their village.

Drawing on Kim's journey from German media executive to American founder, this talk combines raw vulnerability with practical tools for high-achieving women who are quietly burning out.

 

01

I Was the Strong Girl

The trap of self-sufficiency — and how the most capable women are often the most isolated.

02

Visibility Is Not Vanity

Why hiding is selfish — and how to show up with confidence without performing a version of yourself.

03

Build Your Village

From mean-girl culture to real community — the principles behind The Hyve and why women need a different kind of network.

04

AI Without Fear

How female founders can use AI as a confidence tool, not a replacement — and build businesses that feel human.

WHAT I BUILD

Three ecosystems.
One mission.

The Kim Code

Keynote speaking, visibility coaching, and on-camera training for women who are ready to be seen without apology. This is where strategy meets story.

KEYNOTES & COACHING

The Hyve Hamptons

The only dedicated business membership community for female founders on the East End. 200+ members. No mean-girl culture. Real belonging for ambitious women.

JOIN THE HYVE

She Means AI

AI tools and workflows for women who want to work smarter, not harder. No tech overwhelm. No shame. Just practical systems that free up your time and amplify your voice.

EXPLORE SHE MEANS AI
Candid Editorial
On Stage with Community
THE STORY BEHIND THE WORK

I used to be the general.
Then I burned out.

In Germany, they called me "the general." I ran newsrooms, made the hard calls, and never once asked for help. I thought that was strength.

Then I moved to the US, hit a wall of mean-girl dynamics, and realized that being the strong girl was the loneliest thing I'd ever done.

So I built the community I wished I'd had. The Hyve now has 200+ members. My keynote is the story I never planned to tell — and the one that changes rooms.

MEET KIM

"Kim is a pleasure to work with. I would recommend her to anybody in need of professional media training."

RAMI SOWAN  ·  DEVELOPMENT & COMMUNITY MANAGER, ZALANDO
ALSO AVAILABLE

For the woman who wants
deeper support.

Beyond the stage, Kim works directly with founders and entrepreneurs who are ready to get visible, get clear, and get out of their own way.

01

1:1 Coaching

Private · Strategic · Personal

For the founder who knows what she wants but keeps getting in her own way. Kim works with a small number of private clients on visibility strategy, messaging clarity, and showing up consistently without burning out.

  • Monthly sessions — strategy, accountability, real talk
  • Messaging and positioning clarity
  • Visibility system that fits your actual life
  • AI tools integrated where they make sense
  • Direct access between sessions
APPLY FOR 1:1

02

On-Camera Intensive

Workshop · Group or Private

You know you need to show up on video. You also know something weird happens the second you press record. This workshop fixes that — in a room full of women who feel exactly the same way.

  • Half-day live workshop format
  • Camera confidence and natural delivery
  • Content frameworks you can use immediately
  • Available for corporate teams and private groups
  • Next date: March 2026
JOIN THE WORKSHOP

01

Group Program

Community · Curriculum · Accountability

For the founder who knows what she wants but keeps getting in her own way. Kim works with a small number of private clients on visibility strategy, messaging clarity, and showing up consistently without burning out.

  • Monthly sessions — strategy, accountability, real talk
  • Messaging and positioning clarity
  • Visibility system that fits your actual life
  • AI tools integrated where they make sense
  • Direct access between sessions
JOIN THE WAITLIST

Not sure where to start?

That's completely okay. Send Kim a message and she'll point you in the right direction — no pressure, no pitch.
START THE CONVERSATION
HOW IT WORKS

From first message
to showing up fully.

01

Reach Out

Drop Kim a message. Tell her where you are and what you're working toward. She reads every one.

02

Clarity Call

A short conversation to understand what you need and whether this is the right fit. No hard sell.

03

Right Container

Together you decide the best format — 1:1, workshop, group, or speaking engagement.

04

You Show Up

The work begins. You get visible, you get clear, and you stop waiting for perfect to start.